Letting Go – Of course, it hurts

when you think about the person who was once your best friend; the person who was once your lover; the person who once shared your most intimate secrets.
It hurts even more now that person may be an enemy, a litigant, and an adversary. There is now a conflict of interest. You are fighting and bickering over things you once owned together; things that you once nurtured and loved as a couple. Your home, possessions, and even time with your children must be brutally divided. The rights of each, the access, the ownership of, all have been clinically fought for. They are won or they are lost. They are legally and finally determined.”

That was the past, this is the point where we put that behind us, we have a new beginning, a new-found, newly earned, freedom. A new, unfettered, road to joy and love. 

Understand that another person will not prevent your loneliness, a new person in your life will not create happiness – that is something you need to achieve from within you. Love yourself first – only then can you create and share that love with another.